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i really cant bare to leave my boyfriend, and with living in the midlands and moving to brighton, its a long way to go. anyone else leaving parteners and moving so stupidly far away?
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14-01-2008 22:01
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My boyfriend buggered off to uni in September. It gets easier.
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14-01-2008 22:04
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mine is trying to switch from the uni he's at to brighton, but i don't think he's got good enough a level results and he's in his first year at the moment.. he's at the closest uni to me now, which is half an hour away. i dunno what to do, don't wanna leave him but i'd hate myself and him if i didn't go to brighton..
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14-01-2008 22:06
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hey christie, im in brighton now and i left my boyfriend 2 1/2 hours away!! it is difficult but there is so much to do here, especially if u live in halls that the time flies, and u will appreciate each other so much more when u see each other :)
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14-01-2008 22:07
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14-01-2008 22:09
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hi i was going to go uni last year and my boyfriend made me feel so guilty for traveling so far away that in the end i didnt go! this year i no its what i have to do for me but the guilt trips are coming back and making me feel like the bad one, all you seem to be happy even tho your all living apart. i no im still going to go ahead with it but cant stand the arguements all the time......how do u all still make the relationships work with trust and stuff cause thats what his most worried about even though weve been together nearly 7 years! HELP lol! x
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14-01-2008 22:16
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hey everyone, I'm lucky, as i'm moving closer to my boyfriend <3 lol. I'm in a long distance relationship now (he's in England I'm in Greece!) and we've been together for almost 3 years, so FINALLY. I'm so happy =) And Christie, if you feel strongly about eachother, i'm sure you'll work something out, so don't worry. But if you don't go to the uni you want because of your relationship, you'll regret it later, so be wise =)
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14-01-2008 22:17
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I really want him to come to Brighton with me, if he gets rejected he'll be gutted! so will I!
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14-01-2008 22:25
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yup i really want to go to Wales and my boyf seems to have a phobia of going outside of Surrey. I'm in two minds of what to do at the moment although i know in the end i'll regret it if i got in and didn't go...x
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14-01-2008 22:34
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My boyfriend went to Uni in September, its so hard! But im joining him this September coming. Not wanting to steal your post or anything lol but theres a long topic here about it, some people have said some really interesting things n it seems like people have felt so much better bout their decisions from it :) http://www.yougofurther.co.uk/network/thread/539348.aspx Hope this helps (n doesnt offend :S) xx
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14-01-2008 22:43
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I'm trying to get onto a foundation year and choices for me are limited, mainly to the south west and the south east, my girlfriend wants to go to london met, and if i dont get into a course...i;m stuck up here in MIDDLESBROUGH, thats a good 300 miles!!! gunna be well hard but we'll manage i'm sure :) only 17 quid return on national express!!!
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14-01-2008 22:43
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Emma, you trust him im sure, just being at Uni n things like that gets worrying. Your other half being so far away at a place where meeting new ppl and having sex is bascially what its all about n them partying all the time will be hard. But just remember, you might not trust other people ie girls coming onto him but you DO trust him (tho my boyf doesnt seem to understand this!) Just trust him and make sure you talk to eachother everyday! xx
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14-01-2008 22:45
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I'm going to Reading which is about an hour away from where I live so leaving my boyfriend shouldn't be that bad. I hope :)
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15-01-2008 11:47
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My boyfriend left for Uni in October and eventhough he is less than an hour away, the new lifestyle was hard to get used to. Arguments started and I was only seeing him once or twice every 2 weeks. Also, because Im planning on moving further away (to leeds uni) at the end of this year it just seemed a little pointless. We're still great friends though..and eventhough we arent together its great to still chat n visit him. x
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15-01-2008 12:05
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Hey. I will be leaving my boyfriend in Sept...
We will have been together for over a year and a half by then so i suppose it might not be as hard as i imagine...
i will be 4hours away from him and he wont consider moving with me cause he has a steady job up here in the highlands of Scotland..
I have considered staying up here to be with him but then again why should i sacrafice my future if hes not willing to move with me... I know if its ment to work it will.. and im willing to give it a go!
Just go for it and see what happens..
And all my friends keep telling me not to worry about it till nearer the time! Its so hard though!
xx
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15-01-2008 12:08
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