anyone leaving their b/f g/f to go to uni???

My gf keeps bringing up "For another 6 months" whenever she brings our future into it...

 It's worrying me that she plans to end it when I go to uni =[ Which worries me in another way because I keep thinking it means she doesn't care that much about our relationship

 It's a shame because I care about her greatly and it's only a 30 minute train ride away from where I'm hoping to go...

hmmm, maybe the best thing to do would be talk to him about it in a couple of months and see what his reaction is then. And maybe by then he will be more willing to talk about it rather than dodge the subject.

 I know how you feel though, im going to be leaving behind a guy im crazy about we were dating but had to stop after my parents pretty much ruined it by having a massive row with him (over a different issue). Im going to really miss him in september!

M boyfriend buggered off to uni in September, and so far no problems We're coming up to 2 years at the beginning of March.

Don't worry about it now. There's loads of time before you leave.

I don't think breaking up before uni was ever an option for my boyfriend and I. Of course we had some worries, but neither of us ever had the intention of breaking up :] And we've talked through it enough for us both to be pretty comfortable with going to university. We've been together about a year now and wherever we end up we'll only be an hour apart max, with there being a good chance of us ending up in the same city (Edinburgh) if I get an offer - the lucky bug has already got his! We're used to seeing each other every day so I'm sure it'll be a bit odd adapting to university life, but I'm confident that we'll be fine. No reason for us not to be :]

Me and my bf are kinda not talking about it much. We've been together almost 2 years and living together for the second of those two (I moved in with him for my gap year). The way we see it, if it's meant to stay, it'll stay. It scares me a little though, not least because in some ways I look forward to a new start with no one else to depend on.

 We did consider moving down together (I'm 19, he's 25) and he'd get a job and house there, but it's just bad in many ways, when neither of you know each other and the one who isn't at uni restricts how much the student can integrate (though not necessarily intentionally).
 

Absolutely not :) 

Love mine to bits and would never let him go lol! He's a bit worried I'll forget about him bless but I love him to pieces so no chance :) xxx

Well, I dunno. I mean, my bf's in Glasgow, and I'm going to St. Andrews. I would try and keep it going, but i think its too much of a distance.

So I might be leaving him, :\ 

Don't want to. 

Been with my bf 1 year and 1/2 almost and we are both going to uni (he will be a mature student) Wouldn't dream of leaving him!! Love him to bits! I believe if it's meant to be it'll be! I know someone who's gf went to uni in America for 4 years and he stayed here they ended up married!!

I think avoiding the subject is a guy thing! x x

Ahh!! Everyone else seems to have been able to sort something out!! I got dumped 2 weeks ago because I'm going in 6 months, he doesn't even want to try and work it out because he had loads of grief when his ex went. I was only with him for like 4 weeks so it's not a huge loss.

It's just become a 'casual' thing...